每次想起你 雨就落下来了
我们从前的快乐变了梦

我对天空说你是真的爱我
假装你还是我的

我喜欢的人之後忘记了我
回忆它一滴一滴 从天上慢慢降落
好像说孩子你别难过

我深爱的人现在抱著谁呢
雨滴带不走你说的一句 我爱你 ~ 21 sept 08

Was surfing the web and came across this. Something to learn and ponder about.

5 essentials for a healthy relationship:

1) Being with the RIGHT person!

No relationship is perfect. Many people have been with the wrong people though this essential may sound easy.Unless from the beginning you start by being with someone that likes to do things with you, has similar interests and a similar attitude in general, you’ll be doomed to walk the rest of your life in regret.
If you have two opposing views on every topic and struggle doing what the other likes to do, then you are on a tremulous path.

2) Flexibility

Give and take situation. One may like shopping, one may not, but that doesn't mean you do not shop together. Do not keep a score on who owe who. Support and care about each other's desires and needs. If you love someone, that shouldn’t be an issue. Just spending time together should be fun!

3) Forgiveness

Forgive each other's mistakes along the way. Even the most terrible ones! If they are too terrible and you can’t forgive the one you love, then ready yourself for serious problems. If your partner loses it and says something nasty to you, shake it off. Everyone has mood swings and if they love you, it’s probably not personal.

4) Communication

If something is bothering you, speak up. If you did something wrong, do talk to the other party.Spend time each day talking about your day. Put time aside to just hang out and chat about things. Keep the communication channels open as much as possible.

5) Plan Your Life Together

Plan and do tings together both short term and long term.Plan what you are going to do this coming week. Plan dates together, outings and even time to bum around town.Plan some things you can do to get away this coming year or years. And what your goals are with your life in general. By having goals together, the struggles of today will seem lighter.

p/s: tx piggie for helping mi wif my haywire layout juz now :)

p/s: sry emp I have been falling aslp these days while talking wif u :X i too tired le..alwiz lie on bed jiu "oh oh " fall "dead" liao.